| Chapter 13D - it certainly happens |
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Chapter thirteenth D It's definitely going to happen! "Many couples begin a quarrel with some specific reason, and moment later argues on the same course of argument. " JOHN GRAY - Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" conflicts are each element of interpersonal relationships. Irrespective of your commitment, love and desire to build a magnificent view strife is an element which is unavoidable in any relationship. One thing is certain - if two people spend time together, are the moments when their views on certain issues will vary. In these moments, when your opinion on the subject are different, conflict is natural. Through the word "argument" I do not mean any drastic excesses, but simply an exchange of views which may be more or less emotional. Differences in views and beliefs are a matter of natural, which develops and stimulates us to look at the data file in a new and often totally different way. So do not be afraid to exchange views and pathologically avoided. The fear of saying what really we want is often greater than the problem itself. Instead of avoiding the exchange of views, called by some quarrel, it is better to accept the fact that once any, and will be ready for it. Preparation is therefore clear that if there emotional exchange of views, then I shall act so that something to learn from it rather than to prove its right and superiority, thereby undermining their relationship. | | |