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Sometimes people who come to me for private consultations convince me that their appearance did not have a chance of the prettiest girls. Then I tell them I was standing at the crossroads and can choose one of two possibilities. The first way is the way complaints of what is not. It leads to a continuous deterioration of mood myself and a friend, but it does not add anything to the situation we want to improve. Second route is the road to acceptance and use what you have. It leads to the achievement of what is possible and had to withdraw because of what you do not have and have not. The result of choosing this path is determined action by all means, which ends with the achievement of the desired goal. When you present them with this matter in a metaphorical usually say ".. yes, you're right, better use of their capabilities." Do not you think it is pointless to complain about something you can not change? Why complain that it is low, if we do not have any effects, and nothing can be done about it? Think you that all Fordy going to New York to Chicago, stopping to quench engines and complain that they are not as fast as the Porche. Whether such action is reasonable? Can it change something? Of course not. Fordy will never be as fast as the Porch, but if they will go (use of their resources) to finally reach your goal. You have to accept how you look, because you do not have a direct impact on the features of his face, height and shape of the head as the car has no effect on its speed, acceleration and payload. However, you can improve your car by building it into a good stereo, cleansing it and woskując. As well as your appearance is a lot of things that you have the overall impact and value that you are not anxious. I once read some sociological studies, which demonstrated that for women is important not so much beauty, such as " Being well-groomed, "which was defined as a nice haircut, general cleanliness and tailored clothing." If "being groomed" is what counts in the appearance of women, it stands before you a simple task | | |